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Welcome to Larry and Melissa's blog. We focus on two player gaming and gaming with our two children, ages 10 & 8. This blog will feature random musings, gaming reports and reviews from both of us. We will also post some non-gaming thoughts from time to time. Feel free to join in the discussions.
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Why we Can't Vote on Games as a Family

Melissa Welborn
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Larry has already written a description of our game-playing Friday night on Family Game night. What he omitted was the misguided attempt that I came up with to have everyone in the family vote for what game they wanted to play. I thought if everyone wrote down their number one and number two game to play, we could get a consensus.

Ummmm........No.

First round: Four different games got number 1 votes, and four more different games got number 2 votes. There was absolutely no agreement or overlap. Our daughter is crazy for Chicken Cha Cha Cha, and voted for that and its sister Gulo Gulo. Our son wanted Defenders of the Realm and Power Grid (which we weren't sure they were ready for.) Larry chose Attika and The Downfall of Pompeii, and I chose Pickomino and Qwirkle. Lovely!

So in the second round of secret balloting, I decided to switch to Defenders of the Realm because I thought it's what Larry really wanted. Our son stayed with Defenders. Unbeknownst to us, our daughter switched to Pickomino, while Larry, feeling sorry for her, switched to Chicken Cha Cha Cha.

As Jeff Probst does on Survivor, we tallied the votes.....The son was happy because Defenders of the Realm got two votes. The daughter cried and cried, with deep racking sobs that no one ever wants to play her game. Larry asked her why she switched, which resulted in even more tears. I sense a round of chicken cha cha cha in our near future.

So much for brilliant ideas.
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So what do I get for switching? Heartache, nothing but heartache.
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  • Posted Tue Mar 15, 2011 3:51 am
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You should have played Wits & Wagers Family... Problem solved!
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  • Posted Tue Mar 15, 2011 5:20 am
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I recommend trying Preferential Voting.

Start with a list of candidate games (perhaps each person proposes 2 games). Then everyone writes the list in their preferred order (best to worst).
Each voter is voting for the game at the top of their list.
If a game has a majority of votes, it wins - you're done.
If not, throw out the game (or games) which received the smallest number of votes (which might mean that some voters are now voting for a lower game in their list) and reevaluate until some game has a majority of votes.

Not guaranteed to halt with a unique winner, but works a lot better than most voting systems.
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  • Posted Tue Mar 15, 2011 8:48 am
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How about everybody gets to write down 2 games on separate slips of paper, all slips get mixed in a bowl, and 1 gets drawn. Once that game is played, throw that slip away, and draw another, etc. Once the bowl is empty, everyone gets to write 2 more slips.

Ultimately, everyone gets to play the games they want to play, and everyone also has to accomodate the wishes of others, at other times.
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That sounds like a nicer way to make certain all choices are honored- a good idea for family game night.
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  • Posted Tue Mar 15, 2011 1:33 pm
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Of course, there is something to be said for the "daddy is game dictator" system of choosing. devil
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Larry Welborn wrote:
Of course, there is something to be said for the "daddy is game dictator" system of choosing. devil


Yes there is, and I believe you know that it is nothing good.
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Well, if you play consistently over a stretch of time, simply rotate who gets to pick the game that night.

Sharing is Caring!
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  • Posted Tue Mar 15, 2011 3:11 pm
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markgravitygood wrote:
Well, if you play consistently over a stretch of time, simply rotate who gets to pick the game that night.

Sharing is Caring!


Some players of Chicken Cha Cha Cha may take offense at another being the first one to pick, to start the rotation.

The nice thing about the "voting jar" (or bowl, etc.) is that it isn't a member of the family, and can therefore not be the target of hurt feelings. It has no preferences, makes no favorites.
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  • Posted Tue Mar 15, 2011 6:26 pm
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Thank you for all of the great ideas. We might try one of those other methods next time. I just get tired of "What do you want to play?" "I don't know, what do you want to play?"

Ming it is. Actually, as I have been informed by Larry, it's Mhing. Woops.

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With our group I pick out about five games for short list. I give everyone three poker chips that represent votes. Set out all five games on the table. Everyone puts their chips on the games they want. You can put all chips on same game or different. Game with the most votes is played.
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