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Pet Peeves & Irritants - or It really bugs me when...
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A new project at work has created a tense and stressful environment. We're under the gun to deliver a large amount of software development in a short time period and it's in those moments that small things start to bother you. Those little things that don't normally get under your skin but ever so slowly (and sometimes extremely quickly) they make you want to explode.

This list is dedicated to those pet peeves & irritants that get under your skin and generally make you blood start to boil.

Please add those items that bug you all the time, some of the time, or maybe only when you must focus but can't.

It really bugs me when...


The list by sodaklady over a year ago inspired me so here's a link to it in credit:

http://www.boardgamegeek.com/geeklist.php3?action=view&listi...


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1. Board Game: Telephone Tag [Average Rating:0.00 Unranked]
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It really bugs me when...

people listen to their voicemail on speakerphone. I'm working over here in cubeville and I really don't need to hear what your doctor has to say about that...that...thing you have growing on your back.

Oh...and when you come into cubeville, you don't need to talk like you've got a megaphone in your throat. Really, as strange as it may sound, not everyone is enthralled by your every word.
 
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Brother,

Every time I watch "Office Space" and they show that scene that says, "Tech-Know Industry, Please Hold" I will think of you.
 
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During a brief trip through cubicle hell I was shocked that so many people were this inconsiderate. They would have entire conversations with people..them shouting into the phone and the other person shouting back because they could tell they were on speaker phone. Very rude! Drove me insane.
 
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I also get people coming over to stand in my cube but talk to the person in the cube next to me over the low wall that separates the cubes.

 
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I also get people coming over to stand in my cube but talk to the person in the cube next to me over the low wall that separates the cubes.


you need a waterpistol..
 
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Morgan Dontanville
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Archie McPhee has an awesome new line of toys called the Cubes.



You can check out more stuff here:
http://www.mcphee.com/categories/cubes.html
 
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Morgan, those are AWESOME!
 
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2. Board Game: Forward to Richmond! [Average Rating:6.11 Overall Rank:5213]
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It really bugs me when...

people forward forwarded email to me. Chain-letter emails and emails concerning the email-driven fund drive for Billy's cancer operation are summarily deleted. Anything with a 50pt fontsize and in multiple colors is gone. If you don't take enough time to type your own subject line and/or type a bit of your own text to the forward, then forget it...it's gone.
 
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On the off chance (okay, common occurance) that they think they have found something new and/or funny and/or original in their inbox that they must forward to everyone in the office....

I generally send them the link to www.snopes.com describing their email, and how it's been in common circulation for (usually) 20 to 30 years.

Someone in the office thinking they have just discovered something funny, then find out "everyone" has already heard it, it's been old news for decades, and they are hopelessly behind the times....well, doing that a couple times stops the flow nicely.

(And make sure to 'reply all' with the response - no need for their humiliation to be private.)
 
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crap...what xander said.
 
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I usually just respond with the snopes link.


Wow, Grognads is on snopes?

arrrh Gotta get me some o'that ``punctuation`` action. snore
 
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I second Xander's tactic. It has worked for me. I used to get all those emails, but not anymore. Nothing has been as effective as Know-it-allism. I like to think that I'm getting people to think before they Forward.

International League of Pedants
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motto: "Accuracy Over Tact"
 
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I *approve* of that motto!

 
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3. Board Game: I Bet I Know [Average Rating:4.60 Unranked]
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It really bugs me when...

someone asks for you wishlist of games and then trys to convince you that those ones they saw at Target today look really good...you know, there's some new Scrabble versions.

If you ask for my wishlist concerning items that I'm a geek about and you're not, then don't ignore it.
 
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I was in Target with my wife the other day and we spotted the new editions of some classics - they're done up to look like bookshelf games. She started to ask and I said "No. Tell your family no, tell my family no. Tell everyone no. They're just new packages of games we already have or don't want"
Last year they decided to get me game since I'm a gamer. I think my favorite was "executive tic tac toe". The scary part? I was able to win (three in a row) several times against other adults...
 
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4. Board Game: Devil Bunny Needs a Ham [Average Rating:5.40 Overall Rank:7472]
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It really bugs me when...

my family members come to visit and seeing no knickknacks sitting around our house, think we need some knickknacks gifts to fill that knickknack-void in our lives rather than understanding that since our home has no knickknacks that we're not really into knickknacks.
 
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You can always break them in the street or use them as target pracice. Maybe set them up in a pyramid and do some bowling with the other inevitable Christmas gift...the fruitcake.
 
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lol.. my wife got a handbag for Xmas from her mother.. she had noticed that my wife didn't have one.. of course the reason she didn't have one was becasue she didn't want one...
 
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I have a long running joke to get my friends the ugliest most tacky knickknack every time I go on vacation. (but yet something they would still get a kick out of) Its quite fun actually. Some of that stuff has actually hung around.
 
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My wife deliberately buys knick-knacks to fill empty spaces on top of cupboards. Because, as she rightly points out, other junk will accumulate there anyway. But she can't seem to understand that the other junk just accumulates there as well as the knick-knacks, so now every flat surface in our house is covered in decorative crap, and piles of books and paper work and pens, and so on. Except in my study, where it's games that cover every flat surface.
 
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5. Board Game: Computer Rage [Average Rating:4.00 Unranked]
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It really bugs me when...

people get upset with me that I can't fix their computer problems. The don't understand why their 10 year old machine can't run the latest video game their 16 year old son just bought or why I can't get their emails to work on their internet(s).

Few things are more frustrating than trying to describe to your 80 year old father-in-law why he needs a firewall except maybe trying to understand what in the hell your 75 year old father is trying to tell you (over the phone) about why his "pop-ups are not starting in his Microsofts" and how he got rid of all those extra things he didn't need by using regedit.

It also bugs me that this is my third attempt at this geeklist and something has gone wrong every single time!
 
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I feel you. Just because I have a degree in computer science doesn't mean I can or want to fix your computer.
 
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I do support 8 hours a day. Every other month I come home and my wife wants me to call her Dad to help him figure out what stupid thing he had done to screw his computer up.

These calls have taken between 30 minutes to 3 hours before.

What makes it worse is he knows nothing about computers, but when I am walking through things, he quesitons the logic of what I am having him do.

Of course he is always wrong, and yet still questions my actions each step of the way.

"Ok, I am going to walk you through doing this and that..."

"I have already tried that"
"Well let me walk you through it again because it really should have fixed this problem.."

"Fine. But I know it is not going to fix it, because I already tried it...."

10 minutes later the procedure "he already tried" fixes the problem. In two months we will be having the same conversation, but for a different problem.
 
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"But why can't you fix it? You write software for a living!"

If you want code that will prevent your wheels from locking up when braking (ABS), not slip to much when accelerating (TCS) or even turn the way your steering wheel is pointing (ESC), I'm your guy. Debugging a Windows issue? Ugh. angry I buy Dell so they will fix it for me.
 
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6. Board Game: Wide World of Sports Auto Racing Game [Average Rating:5.00 Unranked]
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It really bugs me when...

I'm sitting in the 'straight' lane like a good citizen but people are zoom past in the open 'turn' lane and at the last minute shooting into my lane only to get stopped hanging halfway out into their original lane.
 
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Such people will eventually burn in hell, and I often fantasize about sending them there. A game of Roadkill every so often seems to make me feel better.
 
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7. Board Game: Auto Repair: A Game of Expenses [Average Rating:0.00 Unranked]
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It really bugs me when...

my car gets totalled around Thanksgiving. It happend in 1998 and now we're waiting on our insurance company to let us know if the damage from the drunk driver will total the car from this year's Thanksgiving.
 
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Wow, I nearly lost my wife and both kids to a drunk driver running from the police in 2001. Doing 65 in a 30 in a school zone. Most terrifying 15 minute drive of my life. Not knowing anything because the police wont tell you on the phone except "it's bad"... My wife lost a lot of the use of her right arm for life and my kids got pretty beat up, the van totalled. but I thank God everyday he let me keep my family.

Anyway, sorry to dump on your thread. not a day goes by I dont think about it and with it being my birthday I was reflecting and saw your thread. It struck a cord.. I truly hope everyone is ok!
 
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blush sorry, not sure why I typed that out above. rather heavy on your thread. you can delete it and this and it wont upset me.
Sorry again.
 
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Well, this time my wife was alone driving back from visiting her parents and re-injured her neck but she's recovering.

The '98 crash was much worse. All four of us were in the car, air bags to the face, back boards and a trip to the hospital for 3 of the 4 of us, the lady who hit us flew out of her car onto the road, ...

Anyway, we're all 'okay' except for the mental trauma for our daughter...the one not physically injured. It's pretty rough seeing everyone in your family in ambulances including your 2 year old brother and you're only 4 and have no experience to process that kind of thing.
 
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Wow. I'll just say I'm glad to hear everyone survived.
 
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Marc,

Glad they are OK. God bless you.
 
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8. Board Game: Get The Message [Average Rating:5.00 Unranked]
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It really bugs me when...

you tell your kids to clean up the living room and when they say they're done you go back and check to find it looking pretty much the same.

Did you guys have your eyes open when you looked to see that you were done?!
 
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Stealth toys, stealth clothes, and "that's not mine".
 
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From the other side...

It really bugs me when I spend several hours cleaning a room, only to have somebody say they don't see the difference.

Well, sure, all the piles are still there, but they're all half as tall as they used to be!
 
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Well, sure, all the piles are still there, but they're all half as tall as they used to be!


or the piles are the same size but now they are sorted by type
 
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9. Board Game: Listen Up! [Average Rating:5.61 Unranked]
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It really bugs me when...

people don't answer the question.

- Are you going to pick up your sister after work?
- She gets off at 4pm.

Hunh?!
 
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Halleluiah!

I've had a long running "discussion" with my wife about this. Long running = 14+ years of marriage.
 
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The one I get is:

Wife: mumble mumble mumble Thursday.
Me: I can't hear you.
Wife: THURSDAY!

It happens every single time. I don't get it.
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Maybe you're just going deaf John Farrell laugh. I know I answer my mum in perfectly clear, audible English and she'll scream back 'DO YOU WANT FOOD?' which makes me come stomping over to her to scream back my reply.
 
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On a related note, I hate it when I say something, my wife doesn't hear it, so I say it more loudly and more clearly. Then I get in trouble for yelling at her. angry
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Sometimes I can't resist:

Wife: Do you want Chicken or Beef?

Me: Yes.

Then she will repeat the same question 3 or 4 times more, each time I correctly, precisely, and accurately respond to her question, each time she gets angrier and angrier.

Why can't people ask the question that they really want the answer to? instead of repeating the question that didn't give them the information the first time. Any why increase the volume? Did the fact that I responded indicate that you need to say it louder to change the meaning of the question?





 
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10. Board Game: Let's Go Shopping [Average Rating:0.00 Unranked]
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It really bugs me when...

People ding my car by either letting their door fling open into it or let their shopping car crash into it at 100 miles an hour across the parking lot.
 
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I found a couple of seriously bad dings in the side of my car just a few hours ago. I hope whoever did it rots in Hellas (not that I have anything against the game, it just seems like a hot place).

 
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11. Board Game: Car Wars (fifth edition) [Average Rating:6.16 Overall Rank:3086]
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Some driving related pet peeves:

1) Driving without headlights in rain or fog. It seems like every other car on the road is some shade of gray. Might as well be camouflage when it's raining. Just because you can see the road doesn't mean other drivers can see you.

2) Driving with their parking lights on. I can understand that sometimes you just forget to turn on your lights. But turning on your parking lights takes a conscious act. What exactly is the thought process here? Trying to improve mileage by reducing electric load? Then turn off your subwoofer. Parking lights do not convey the same information to other drivers as headlights and taillights - they're not appropriately used on a moving vehicle.

3) Merging at the last possible moment. When a freeway lane ends, there are multiple warning signs that typically begin thousands of feet in advance. This is to give drivers ample opportunity to find a gap and move over, in order to reduce turbulence. It's not so you can pass one more car on the right, and force a dozen to hit their breaks when you finally merge, so you can get off at the next exits 2 seconds sooner.

4) Yielding when you have the Right of Way. First, don't let #3 in - it just encourages them. Second, you think you're being nice when you stop midblock to let someone make a left turn, but there are people behind you and coming the other direction who don't (and shouldn't) expect a stop or turning vehicle.

5) Red light runners. You know why there are all-red periods on signals? Because people push the limit on entering when they can enter an intersection. Knowing that some drivers will run red lights, engineers add an all-red period (usually only 1-2 seconds) between phases, so conflicting vehicles don't enter an intersection at the same time. But drivers learn this, and push the limit further, which leads to longer all-red periods. It's a vicious cycle. From a system wide view, red light running makes everyone - including the red light runners, wait longer.

6) Pedestrians who push the ped call button a dozen times. This isn't going to make the phase change any faster. Once is enough, trust me.

7) Inappropriate speed limits. If you build a 4 lane road with wide shoulders and large radius curves, don't expect people to drive 25 because you put up a sign. If you want a 25mph road, build a 25mph road. It's cheaper!

I'll stop there...
 
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3) Merging at the last possible moment.


When there is road construction and a lane is closed up ahead.

Signs warn - Right lane closed 2 miles.
Right lane closed 1 mile....

Traffic is backed up in the left lane but there are still people travelling at high speed, flying past the stopped traffic in the now empty lane with people who fully expect to be let in 2 feet from the lane ending barrels and they sit there and act upset that people don't want to let them in but somebody always does.
 
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because I don't see how it is more efficient for all of us to let one bonehead zoom ahead, only to have us all put on our brakes to let him in a few minutes later


Sure. It's not. But it would be more efficient if both lanes were busy and cars merged civilly at the end of both using the "one from each lane method". Both lanes would move faster on average this way.

My point is that for some reason a lot of people seem to think that by merging into the one lane earlier they are being "better" somehow than their peers who don't, and then behave in what can be only be politely described as an assinine manner when the other try to merge. That's exactly the definition of righteousness in my book - some personal belief that must be enforced on everyone else. And it's also a big cause of delays.
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Re points 5 & 7: Be glad you don't live in NSW Australia. During our holiday seasons the driving demerit points are adjusted so that you lose 6 points (out of 12) for going 5km/h over the speed limit but only 4 points for running a red light.

Yes, you read that right, the government would have you believe that going through on amber lights at 65km/h is 50% more dangerous than going through the red at 60km/h.
 
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4) Yielding when you have the Right of Way. First, don't let #3 in...

I used to be a strong proponent of this as #3 irritated me to no end. However, about a month ago a mother lost her life and her 4 year old daughter is now permenantly and seriously disabled because she and another women were not going to back off from a lane mergeshake. Just relax and let 'em think they've won. The life you save may be your own.
 
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For merging into traffic into one lane, I have a simple rule. If you want in front of me before the third sign telling you that your lane is ending, be my guest. After that, forget it! Driving a 1998 Cavalier with a few dents, it's not too hard to ignore cars attempting to merge in front of me.

When in the van, I'll stay in the closing lane pacing a car in the continuing lane with my turn signal on. In the car, that leads to too much honking, gesticulations and/or passing on the shoulder.

I agree that if the traffic has to stop anyway, that merging every other right at the end is efficient. But if people merge every other while still rolling at 50 mph 1/2 mile before the merge, it's even more efficient. meeple

I'd love to see a law that no one in the ending lane can pass a car in the continuing lane after the notice that the lane is ending. Technically, this is already the law in Michigan if the ending lane is on the right, but it isn't enforced. angry
 
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12. Board Game: Litter Bug Game [Average Rating:6.00 Unranked]
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Littering. There is absolutely zero reason to do it. I hate picking trash up off my lawn. I hate seeing it in the streets. I get red when I see someone casually throw something out their car window. There's no defense for this activity. It's not someone else's job to pick up your trash.
 
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Coming off the freeway exit ramps around Columbus, they actually have to put up signs that say:

"Cigarette butts are litter too"

Do people actually have to be told that?!
 
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I used to take care of a stretch of "adopted road" that ran near my house. I would dutifully recycle every can, bottle, and jug that I found. Every now and then I'd find something unusual like a hubcap, styrofoam cooler, or vinyl siding. But cigarette butts far eclipsed the rest in quantity (but not in gross volume). It's disgusting and time consuming.

And as the son of a firefighter, I can say that cigarette butts cause grass fires! This is especially hazardous in the summertime when the grass near the road shoulder gets mowed, leaving all the clippings drying in the sun. Sadly, that's also the season when the smokers are driving with the windows rolled down.
 
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This is a big peeve of mine.

The short answer is no, they don't think its littering.

They have no idea. the same with the guys that stop at a coffee shop, open the door and dump their butt tray on the ground.

What it all comes down to is courtesy. We have so long been acustomed to the concept of "individual rights and freedoms" that we have lost all concept of "individual responsibilities and duties".

They will moan that they have the right to swim in a particular body of water, but complain bitterly when that access is revoked because of the garbage that has built up at the access point.

"But its not my problem." Yeah? did you say anything to that guy that dumped out his 2 week collection of McDonalds drive-through on the ground? Did you take all your trash out with you? Did you take all your cigarette butts?
 
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13. Board Game: A Dog's Life [Average Rating:5.55 Overall Rank:6155]
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It really bugs me when...

people walk their dogs by my house on the street (there are no sidewalks in my neighborhood) and they stop to let their dogs relieve themselves on top of the flowers we have planted down the side of our driveway.

Along the same lines is finding plastic bags of picked up dog droppings thrown into the bottom of our landscaping/yard-waste only trash cans that were empty after pickup.
 
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well, the dog's "relief" may be fertilizer for the flowers, or maybe not. shake

and at least the droppings in your non-trash cans are in bags
 
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14. Board Game: Christmas-in-a-Box [Average Rating:2.00 Unranked]
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Even after 4 Christmases of putting nice, useful gifts in my wifes christmas stocking, my wife still follows the her family's tradition of filling the stocking wil stupid gag gift. I hate gag gifts. Don't waste your time, money and effort giving me something you know I don't want or need just becuase you think it is funny.
 
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Oh man, you've got it light. I know exactly what I'm gonna get in my stocking, chapstick, altoids, deodorant, etc. it's been that way since I was about 10 or 12 (which I suppose isn't all that bad because it's mostly useful).
But that's not the bad part, first off, my whole family (parents, siblings etc. I'm single, so no "family of my own yet") absolutely refuses to get me anything on my Christmas list (I don't even know why I make it every year, I think it's more just a checklist of stuff I'm meaning to buy when I get money). But worse than that, is the fact that probably 90% of all gifts given in my family are joke gifts, even most of the "actual" gifts end up simulaneously being joke gifts.
I know that Christmas isn't about gifts, but as long as we are giving gifts, why can't it be stuff that I actually want?
 
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and I get the flip side of this:
My family pretty much only gets things on the list, so gifts cease to be thoughtful, or even interesting.

Now my wife is not like this, I usually get things from her I do not expect, which is a great change.
 
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Duncan flint
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For the last 20 odd years Ive got either cash or specific gifts for birthday/xmas - I figure if people want to spend money on me they may as well spend money on something I want/need. Additionally, some of my (and Im sure your) tastes are a bit specific - "You like games so I bought you Dog Monopoly"...zombie
 
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I hate presents. Full stop. Completely pointless.
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Gifts can be fun. And I am using the English, not the German meaning here, although I suppose the German meaning could be fun, too.

What I don't like is when my wife's family draws names, then produce lists. One is expected to spend $X +/- $0.05. For some reason, my suggestion that I write a check, hand it to the person that I drew, they pass it to the next on the draw list, etc. When the check gets back to me, I'll rip it up and we'll go buy whatever we wanted at half off during the after Xmas sales.

But I don't really mind gag gifts or other surprises, it's kind of fun. I do wish folks would stop getting me games like Worst Case Scenario, etc.
 
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15. Board Game: Urban Myth [Average Rating:3.32 Overall Rank:7897]
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It really bugs me when...

...people forward me dire warnings about AIDS needles on gas pumps, rat urine on pop cans, and the other 100 messages that could have been stopped if they had just scanned the headlines over at Snopes.com.

No - forwarding this e-mail to 100 people will *not* get you a free XBox 360

No - I don't want 3.6% of your oil baron's fortune in Nigeria

No - that dying kid collecting greeting cards is not only no longer collecting cards but is also no longer dying

 
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16. Board Game: Myst [Average Rating:4.33 Overall Rank:7545]
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Back to driving. People who drive in rain/light mist with Fog Lights on. WHY ? If im tailing you all I get is a red glare !
 
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17. Board Game: Roundabout [Average Rating:5.53 Unranked]
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Roundabouts.....why oh why won't people actually indicate where they're going on the roundabout? It drives me mad when I have to stop in case they decide to go round.
 
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18. Board Game: Rebound [Average Rating:5.50 Overall Rank:6341]
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It really bugs me when...

...people on the internet say something insulting or condescending and then follow it with a smilie as if that somehow absolves them.

"I think you're all a bunch of jerks "

Trust me. If you're kidding, we know from context. Usually the person in question isn't kidding and is just cowardly trying to use the smilie to deflect criticism away.
 
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I'm with you on that one. I have a few pet-peeves related to internet/email communication in general.

It bugs me when people tell you your opinion is wrong.

For example, I post my opinion of a game or how people in my gaming group reacted to a game. Then someone comments that I'm wrong.

Hunh?

You might not agree with my opinion but I don't subscribe to the idea that opinions can be wrong. I don't mind differing opinions at all, it's what makes the world go 'round but please don't say my opinion is wrong. Instead post you're own opinion and open up a dialog. Maybe we'll learn something from each other.



 
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I think you need to learn to relax.
 
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I think you need to learn to relax.


In general I'm pretty easy going but weeks of long hours and high stress does strange things to your psyche.
 
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You are really stressed... gulp

Try a game of Intrige to relax... shake
 
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