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I'm not sure an official ruling is needed as Enoch has hit the nail on the head. The rule he's referencing is on page 5: "Players may not take actions that would result in a 4th ship on the space."
Thusly this rule is explicit that the Lighthouse action can't be taken if doing so would put a fourth ship on the space.