Totally depends. I got my copy of Unfair which I late pledged for at the same time as other backers. Some other campaign I backed mentioned late pledges will be shipped at the end of the line. Usually you're waiting regardless so what's another few months.
Thats an easy one to answer.. Youve waited 4 months longer than you should have already (cause KSes never deliver on time and are always delays) then when everyone is FINALLY getting theirs YOU still have to wait another 3 or so months lol.
But yeah you said yours SAID that would be the case when you did it so that would be no surprise then however mine said if you late backed youd get it at the same time as everyone else assuming you confirmed your pledge manager on time.. which I did and it even has me listed as Shipping Phase 1. However someone else claims hat thats not true because he late pledged Arcadia Quest and even HIS Pledge Manager said shipping phase 1 but he didnt get his til months after everyone else.