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Ow quit it.
Yes, but her kids are learning art appreciation, and yours are learning to feed themselves. Which one has more value in the real world? Just saying.
There are a million ways to say "I love you" and teaching someone to be self sufficient is at the top of my list.
I grew up in a family of 9 kids and we were expected to DO THINGS.
It's our job as parents to make contributing members of society.